What Happens After We Die: The Unconditional Love of Heaven
- Debbie Squizzero
- Apr 7
- 3 min read
When we talk about our passed loved ones being in a place of unconditional love after they leave the physical world, what does that really mean? For many of us, the idea can feel abstract, even ambiguous. How can we truly grasp what unconditional love in Heaven looks like, feels like, or means when our earthly experiences of love come with conditions, judgments, and expectations?
Spirit has shown me that Heaven is a realm or constant state of pure, unwavering, unconditional love, a state of being where no judgment exists, only acceptance and healing.
Imagine the love you receive from a pet—an animal who loves you without question, who remains loyal and adoring no matter your mood, choices or decisions. This is the closest example Spirit has given me to explain the unconditional love in Heaven. Animals and our pets are an example of

heaven on earth. Just like our pets love us without judgment or expectation, so too do our loved ones in Heaven. When they transition, they leave behind the ego, judgment, and emotional baggage that comes with the human incarnation into the physical world. In Heaven, love is not just a feeling, (like it is here in the physical world) it’s a constant state of being for all eternity.
Our passed loved ones, now free from earthly limitations and focused on their own healing in the spirit realm, continue to support and guide us from a place of pure unconditional love. They honor our human journey, respect our choices, and offer their guidance without expectation or judgement. Every sign, nudge, and form of assistance they send is grounded in that unconditional love.
Our loved ones in Heaven fully honor and respect the journey we are on here in the physical world at "Earth School." They respect the choices and decisions we make, and although they can guide and support us, they know we must navigate our own path. When we ask for their help and guidance, they divinely place people, events, opportunities, and situations in our path, always coming from a place of unconditional love. Yet, the final decision is ours—through the beautiful gift of free will—to choose what to do with these people, situations, events and/or opportunities that are divinely placed in our path. Each gesture or sign they send reflects the unconditional love they continue to share with us.
In the end, when we say our loved ones are in a place of unconditional love, we are acknowledging a profound truth—they are no longer bound by the limitations of the physical world. They now exist in a state of pure, unwavering, unconditional love, where judgment and ego no longer play a role. From this higher more evolved realm, (whether you refer to it as heaven, the afterlife, another realm of consciousness or another dimension) they send us signs, guide us, and offer support without any strings attached. They do not want us to carry burdens or guilts no matter the bond, experience or relationship we shared with them while they were here in the physical world.
From what I understand that even people that make very bad or heinous choices and decisions during their earthly journey also go to this place of unconditional love. They have a lot more healing to do, but when the soul arrives in this overwhelming place of love their soul remembers from where they came from and wants to begin healing or rehabilitating their soul to elevate it more to the higher realms of love and light in the afterlife.
Their love is constant, and their presence in our lives continues, even if we can no longer see them. Unconditional love from Heaven is not something distant or abstract; it's here with us, guiding and loving us through every step we take.
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